ADC

Good day Beloved,

Not long after I found myself embracing the title of widow, I was invited to join a Grief Group, which I will hereafter refer to as GG. Thankfully, it is a ZOOM meeting, if it had been an in person meeting I would not have taken the chance. After all, with a ZOOM meeting if I don’t like it I just click on the leave meeting button. No feeling of eyes on your back as you get up and walk out of the room. ZOOM is wonderful for me.

I am grateful for this little group of people. They have allowed me to grieve openly and honestly without judgement. Usually, a couple days before the meeting a facilitator will send out an email with the topic of the upcoming meeting. Recently the topic of discussion was to be ADC, After Death Communication. It is my belief that more people experience this than are willing to admit or maybe even realize that is what happened.

You ever have a dream about someone who has passed away? Thought for certain you saw them walking along a familiar path? Maybe hanging out at the end of your bed? Could even be in the form of a bird or other animal that follows you or crosses your path again and again. My Beloved always smiled when she saw a Cardinal because to her that was one of her favorite cousins stopping by to say hi.

I am of the belief that some people are gifted with abilities to walk on both sides of the veil between this world and the next. There are of course levels of abilities ranging from nothing to more than you would believe. Those people at the higher end of the scale would say “well, of course there is after death communication, yeah”. Those on the other end would maybe think we are nuts for thinking such a thing could happen. Personally, I tend toward the “of course” end of things and that is why I EXPECTED my Beloved to come back to say she was OK. Yet there is silence.

I do not know the reasons and they really do not matter, do they. What matters, like with everything in life, is how I react, what I do with it. I trust she is fine and having a blast catching up those who have gone ahead. I imagine at this point she has hardly had time to catch her breath. When I am ready for it, I’ll see her. I have enough faith for that. If it does not happen, I will be OK with that as well. I am wondering Beloved, where do you land on the ADC scale? I was listening to someone talking about his experiences with ADC and he was so happy and thrilled that he had the chance to connect with his Beloved again. I say good on you man. I am happy for him. Jealous yes, but mostly happy. Maybe some day I will share more on this topic. For now, just think about the possibilities.

Beloved, have a lovely…

Mona Langmaackmelin